So I always see pictures and such of people holding/playing with their crabs. They all look calm and just fine. Whenever I try to take mine out (for only a min at a time since the room humidity isn't suitable) they do nothing but want to run away.. no matter how easy going and subtle I am. Then I feel bad for stressing them cause they look like they're going nuts. I've NEVER had a crab (i have 8 now) die - their home is as perfect as I can get it. However they're still all scared to death if anyone comes near. Is there a way to get them used to us? If i see one out during the day I will usually grab a kernel of popcorn (non salted) and slowly reach in and put it in front of him. Most wont jerk away and love the popcorn like it was crack... but if I pick him up they go apecrap. Any suggestions?