Hello to All! I am brand new to this entire thing and I'm still learning how to do pretty much everything from feeding the right foods to creating the ideal crabitat. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! My 9 year old son saw a tank full of hermies at a local flea market and I broke down and bought him one. Little did I know that I would be the one to fall in love with them. It wasn't but 2 days after bringing "Brutus" home that I went out and purchased "Woody" and "Sandy"! They are great pets, but Sandy VERY shy and I have yet to have either Brutus or Sandy "play" on my hand. Woody is very active, alert, and playful. The other 2, not so much. Should I handle them more or what? I haven't had any molters, should that worry me? Woody and Brutus are both medium crabs, while Sandy is small. Also, I have several shells in their crabitat but no one is changing...should THIS worry me? HELP! I don't want my hermies to die...am I just being too worrisome? Thanks and can't wait to start learning!